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“And I suppose the saddest thing for me, thinking about Oranges , is that I wrote a story I could live with. The other one was too painful. I could not survive it...I can say that there is a character in Oranges who...looks after the little Jeanette and acts like a soft wall against the hurt(ling)…” quote by Jeanette Winterson
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““And I suppose the saddest thing for me, thinking about Oranges , is that I wrote a story I could live with. The other one was too painful. I could not survive it...I can say that there is a character in Oranges who...looks after the little Jeanette and acts like a soft wall against the hurt(ling) force of Mother...I wrote her in because I couldn't bear to leave her out. I wrote her in because I really wished it had been that way. When you are a solitary child you find an imaginary friend. There was no Elsie. There was no one like Elsie. Things were much lonelier than that.””

Jeanette Winterson

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The narrator creates a protective character to cope with loneliness and trauma, illustrating how imagination can soften harsh realities.

In simple terms: Creating a protective figure helps endure pain.

Key Takeaway

Use imagination to buffer emotional hurt.

Themes

loneliness imagination coping protection trauma

Mood

melancholic reflective

Type

literary personal

When to use this quote

  • writing therapy
  • childhood isolation
  • creative storytelling
  • mental health support

Key Concepts

psychology character creation emotional resilience

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you create safe spaces in your mind?
  • What are the risks of relying on imagined protectors?
A Different Perspective

Imaginary companions may delay confronting real issues.

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