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It is our genetic nature as a species to believe as young…

“It is our genetic nature as a species to believe as young children that our parents and elders are right. We watch them to see what's what. Later on we can judge for ourselves and rebel if need be, but when we're just months old, or a year or two, and a parent looks at us with impatience, or…” quote by Jean Liedloff
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“It is our genetic nature as a species to believe as young children that our parents and elders are right. We watch them to see what's what. Later on we can judge for ourselves and rebel if need be, but when we're just months old, or a year or two, and a parent looks at us with impatience, or disgust, or disdain, or just leaves us there to cry and doesn't answer us even though we're longing to be embraced and nurtured, we assume that something must be wrong with us. Unfortunately, at that age it's impossible to think there might be something wrong with them.”

Jean Liedloff

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Children instinctively trust elders, but early neglect can cause self‑doubt; later rebellion may arise.

In simple terms: Kids assume parents are right, even when hurt.

Key Takeaway

Question early assumptions.

Themes

development trust rebellion

Mood

reflective empathetic

Type

philosophical psychological

When to use this quote

  • parenting
  • education
  • therapy
  • self‑reflection

Key Concepts

attachment theory psychological development family dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How did early experiences shape your beliefs?
  • When should you challenge authority?
A Different Perspective

Not all elders are harmful; context matters.

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