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The very essence of politeness is to take care that by our…

“The very essence of politeness is to take care that by our words and actions we make other people pleased with us as well as with themselves.” quote by Jean de La Bruyère
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““The very essence of politeness is to take care that by our words and actions we make other people pleased with us as well as with themselves.””

Jean de La Bruyère

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Politeness means ensuring our words and deeds please both others and themselves.

In simple terms: Be kind so others feel good about themselves.

Key Takeaway

Act with consideration for others.

Themes

courtesy empathy social harmony

Mood

respectful thoughtful

Type

ethical interpersonal

When to use this quote

  • team meetings
  • customer service
  • family gatherings
  • teaching
  • public speaking

Key Concepts

social etiquette self‑esteem interpersonal dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does your behavior affect others’ self‑image?
  • Can politeness be authentic?
A Different Perspective

May be seen as self‑serving rather than genuine.

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