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“You are over-scrupulous, surely. I dare say Mr. Bingley will be very glad to see you; and I will send a few lines by you to assure him of my hearty consent to his marrying whichever he chooses of the girls; though I must throw in a good word for my little Lizzy.” quote by Jane Austen
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““You are over-scrupulous, surely. I dare say Mr. Bingley will be very glad to see you; and I will send a few lines by you to assure him of my hearty consent to his marrying whichever he chooses of the girls; though I must throw in a good word for my little Lizzy.””

Jane Austen

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The speaker playfully critiques a friend's excessive caution, while offering support for a marriage choice and adding a personal endorsement for a particular girl.

In simple terms: A friend is overly cautious but still supportive of a marriage decision and recommends a girl.

Key Takeaway

Balance caution with genuine endorsement.

Themes

friendship marriage social expectations

Mood

lighthearted affectionate

Type

literary conversational

When to use this quote

  • family discussions
  • wedding planning
  • friend advice
  • social matchmaking

Key Concepts

courtship social norms personal endorsement

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we be supportive without being overly cautious?
  • When is it appropriate to intervene in others' romantic choices?
A Different Perspective

Overcautiousness may hinder honest expression of feelings.

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