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To be so bent on Marriage - to pursue a man merely for the…

“To be so bent on Marriage - to pursue a man merely for the sake of situation - is a sort of thing that shocks me; I cannot understand it. Poverty is a great Evil, but to a woman of Education and feeling it ought not, it cannot be the greatest. I would rather be a teacher at a school (and I can…” quote by Jane Austen
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“To be so bent on Marriage - to pursue a man merely for the sake of situation - is a sort of thing that shocks me; I cannot understand it. Poverty is a great Evil, but to a woman of Education and feeling it ought not, it cannot be the greatest. I would rather be a teacher at a school (and I can think of nothing worse) than marry a man I did not like.”

Jane Austen

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Criticizes marrying for convenience, emphasizing personal affection and intellectual compatibility over social necessity.

In simple terms: Marry for love, not convenience.

Key Takeaway

Seek love and shared values in marriage.

Themes

marriage education women's autonomy social expectations

Mood

thoughtful inspirational

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • courtship
  • career decisions
  • family planning

Key Concepts

marital choice personal fulfillment

Questions to Reflect On

  • What values guide your partnership?
  • How can education empower women's choices?
A Different Perspective

Societal pressure may still influence choices.

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