Depend upon it, you see but half. You see the evil, but…
““Depend upon it, you see but half. You see the evil, but you do not see the consolation. There will be little rubs and disappointments everywhere, and we are all apt to expect too much; but then, if one scheme of happiness fails, human nature turns to another; if the first calculation is wrong, we make a second better: we find comfort somewhere—and those evil–minded observers, dearest Mary, who make much of a little, are more taken in and deceived than the parties themselves.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
People often notice problems more than comforts; when plans fail, we seek new happiness, while critics may misinterpret.
In simple terms: We focus on negatives, but can find new joy after failure.
Key Takeaway
Seek comfort after setbacks.
Themes
resilience
perception
criticism
Mood
reflective
optimistic
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- career setbacks
- relationship breakups
- creative blocks
Key Concepts
human nature
expectation
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance criticism and hope?
- What helps you find consolation after loss?
A Different Perspective
Critics may still influence self‑esteem.