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And now, Henry," said Miss Tilney, "that you have made us…

“And now, Henry," said Miss Tilney, "that you have made us understand each other, you may as well make Miss Morland understand yourself—unless you mean to have her think you intolerably rude to your sister, and a great brute in your opinion of women in general. Miss Morland is not used to your odd…” quote by Jane Austen
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““And now, Henry," said Miss Tilney, "that you have made us understand each other, you may as well make Miss Morland understand yourself—unless you mean to have her think you intolerably rude to your sister, and a great brute in your opinion of women in general. Miss Morland is not used to your odd ways." "I shall be most happy to make her better acquainted with them." "No doubt; but that is no explanation of the present." "What am I to do?" "You know what you ought to do. Clear your character handsomely before her. Tell her that you think very highly of the understanding of women." "Miss Morland, I think very highly of the understanding of all the women in the world—especially of those—whoever they may be—with whom I happen to be in company." "That is not enough. Be more serious." "Miss Morland, no one can think more highly of the understanding of women than I do. In my opinion, nature has given them so much that they never find it necessary to use more than half.””

Jane Austen

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This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

He attempts to impress Miss Morland by flattering women, but his insincere flattery reveals shallow understanding of gender dynamics.

In simple terms: He tries to win her by praising women, but it sounds fake.

Key Takeaway

Seek genuine respect over empty compliments.

Themes

courtship gender flattery

Mood

reflective critical

Type

literary social

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • social gatherings
  • family introductions

Key Concepts

Social performance authenticity

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can sincere respect be shown?
  • What risks come from over‑praising?
A Different Perspective

His exaggerated praise may backfire.

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