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“Love is not just a passion spark between two people; there is infinite difference between falling in love and standing in love. Rather, love is a way of being, a "giving to," not a 'falling for"; a mode of relating at large, not an act limited to a single person.” quote by Irvin D. Yalom
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“Love is not just a passion spark between two people; there is infinite difference between falling in love and standing in love. Rather, love is a way of being, a "giving to," not a 'falling for"; a mode of relating at large, not an act limited to a single person.”

Irvin D. Yalom

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Love differs between an intense initial attraction and a sustained, caring presence; it is an ongoing practice of giving, not a fleeting feeling.

In simple terms: Love is a lasting practice, not just a spark.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate love through ongoing giving.

Themes

love relationships growth commitment

Mood

hopeful reflective

Type

inspirational philosophical

When to use this quote

  • marriage
  • friendship
  • parenting
  • community building

Key Concepts

existential psychology attachment theory mindfulness

Questions to Reflect On

  • What daily actions nurture lasting love?
  • How can you shift from feeling love to practicing love?
A Different Perspective

Maintaining love requires effort and intentionality, which can be challenging.

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