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“I often feel caught in a dilemma: on the one hand I wish to be more natural with you and yet, on the other hand, because I feel that you’re easily wounded and that you give my comments inordinate power, I feel I must consider my wording very, very carefully.” quote by Irvin D. Yalom
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““I often feel caught in a dilemma: on the one hand I wish to be more natural with you and yet, on the other hand, because I feel that you’re easily wounded and that you give my comments inordinate power, I feel I must consider my wording very, very carefully.””

Irvin D. Yalom

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Balancing honesty with sensitivity; speaking truthfully while protecting the other’s feelings.

In simple terms: Speak truthfully but gently.

Key Takeaway

Choose words that heal, not hurt.

Themes

communication empathy boundaries

Mood

thoughtful cautious

Type

psychology advice

When to use this quote

  • counseling sessions
  • personal relationships
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

Therapeutic alliance psychological safety

Questions to Reflect On

  • When have you held back to protect someone?
  • How can you convey honesty without causing pain?
A Different Perspective

Over‑cautiousness may hinder authentic connection.

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