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God chooses our kinsfolk for us; but man chooses his own…

“God chooses our kinsfolk for us; but man chooses his own wife; having free will in that choice on which hangs his own life, and the lives of others. Yet the wisest of men said, 'Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favor of the Lord.' Ay, a good wife is the token of such loving…” quote by Hesba Stretton
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““God chooses our kinsfolk for us; but man chooses his own wife; having free will in that choice on which hangs his own life, and the lives of others. Yet the wisest of men said, 'Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favor of the Lord.' Ay, a good wife is the token of such loving favor as we know not yet in this world.””

Hesba Stretton

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Marriage is presented as a divinely blessed partnership, emphasizing personal choice and spiritual reward.

In simple terms: Choosing a spouse is a personal, sacred decision.

Key Takeaway

Seek a partner who aligns with your values.

Themes

marriage faith choice

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • courtship
  • family planning
  • relationship counseling

Key Concepts

divine providence spiritual reward

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance personal preference with spiritual guidance?
  • What qualities define a 'good' spouse?
A Different Perspective

May overlook practical compatibility in favor of idealism.

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