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So this was how secrets got started, I thought to myself…

“So this was how secrets got started, I thought to myself. People constructed them little by little. I had not intended to keep May Kasahara a secret from Kumiko. My relationship with her was not that big a deal, finally: whether I mentioned it or not was of no consequence. Once it had flown down a…” quote by Haruki Murakami
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“So this was how secrets got started, I thought to myself. People constructed them little by little. I had not intended to keep May Kasahara a secret from Kumiko. My relationship with her was not that big a deal, finally: whether I mentioned it or not was of no consequence. Once it had flown down a certain delicate channel, however, it had become cloaked in the opacity of secretiveness, whatever my original "intention" had have been.”

Haruki Murakami

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Secrets spread unintentionally when small details accumulate, creating a hidden layer beyond original intent.

In simple terms: Secrets grow when small bits add up.

Key Takeaway

Be mindful of how information spreads.

Themes

secrecy communication intentionality

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

philosophical literary

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • online privacy
  • workplace gossip
  • family dynamics

Key Concepts

psychology information theory social dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you control the flow of personal information?
  • What safeguards can prevent unintended secrecy?
A Different Perspective

Intentions can be overridden by the way information is shared.

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