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“She repeated what her mother had told me, that she had been moved when she heard me playing as she passed the house. She had seen me on the street a few times, too, and begun to worship me. She actually used that word: worship. It made me turn bright red. I mean, to be 'worshiped' by such a…” quote by Haruki Murakami
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““She repeated what her mother had told me, that she had been moved when she heard me playing as she passed the house. She had seen me on the street a few times, too, and begun to worship me. She actually used that word: worship. It made me turn bright red. I mean, to be 'worshiped' by such a beautiful little doll of a girl! I don't think it was an absolute lie, though. I was in my thirties already, of course, and I could never be as beautiful and bright as she was, and I had no special talent, but I must have had something that drew her to me, something that was missing in her, I would guess. Which must have been what got her interested in my to begin with. I believe that now, looking back. And I'm not boasting.””

Haruki Murakami

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The narrator recounts a child's adoration, feeling flattered yet embarrassed, reflecting on personal insecurities and the desire for validation.

In simple terms: A child’s admiration makes the adult feel both proud and shy.

Key Takeaway

Embrace humility while acknowledging impact on others.

Themes

self‑esteem validation insecurity human connection

Mood

introspective empathetic thoughtful

Type

literary psychological personal

When to use this quote

  • interpersonal relationships
  • self‑reflection
  • creative writing
  • literary critique

Key Concepts

psychology of admiration personal narrative

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does this admiration reveal about the narrator?
  • How can one balance humility with confidence?
A Different Perspective

Reliance on external validation can hinder authentic self‑worth.

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