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O, that's what troubles me, papa. You want me to live so…

“O, that's what troubles me, papa. You want me to live so happy, and never to have any pain,—never suffer anything,—not even hear a sad story, when other poor creatures have nothing but pain and sorrow, all their lives,—it seems selfish. I ought to know such things, I ought to feel about them!” quote by Harriet Beecher Stowe
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““O, that's what troubles me, papa. You want me to live so happy, and never to have any pain,—never suffer anything,—not even hear a sad story, when other poor creatures have nothing but pain and sorrow, all their lives,—it seems selfish. I ought to know such things, I ought to feel about them!””

Harriet Beecher Stowe

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Avoiding pain and sorrow in others can feel selfish; empathy requires feeling others' suffering.

In simple terms: Feeling others’ pain shows empathy.

Key Takeaway

Allow yourself to feel.

Themes

empathy compassion pain self‑awareness

Mood

sad reflective

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • caring for the sick
  • social work
  • activism
  • parenting
  • art creation

Key Concepts

psychology ethics literature

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance empathy with self‑care?
  • When is it okay to protect yourself from others’ pain?
A Different Perspective

Too much sorrow can overwhelm.

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