We are often told during times of bereavement that time…
““We are often told during times of bereavement that time heals all wounds. That's crap. In truth, you are devastated, you mourn, you cry to the point where you think you'll never stop - and then you reach a stage where the survival instinct takes over. You stop. You simply won't or can't let yourself "go there" anymore because the pain was too great. You block. You deny. But you don't really heal.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Grief does not simply disappear; it is managed through survival instincts, leading to emotional blocking rather than true healing.
In simple terms: Grief isn’t cured, it’s managed.
Accept and process grief.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- bereavement
- therapy
- support groups
- personal loss
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What does “blocking” grief look like for you?
- Can you find ways to honor pain without being overwhelmed?
Healing may require confronting pain, not just blocking it.