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“The dictionary describes a selfish person as one who is 'concerned excessively or exclusively with oneself: seeking pleasure or well-being without regard for others.' May we add, a selfish person is often one who refers to 'I,' 'me,' and 'mine' rather than to 'we,' 'ours,' 'yours,' or 'theirs.'…” quote by H. Burke Peterson
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“The dictionary describes a selfish person as one who is 'concerned excessively or exclusively with oneself: seeking pleasure or well-being without regard for others.' May we add, a selfish person is often one who refers to 'I,' 'me,' and 'mine' rather than to 'we,' 'ours,' 'yours,' or 'theirs.' This person is anxious to be in the limelight, to be on center stage in life's little dramas. He or she may be a poor listener, or a conversation monopolizer. Selfishness is the great unknown sin. No selfish person ever thought himself to be selfish.”

H. Burke Peterson

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This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A definition of selfishness linking self‑centered language and desire for attention, portraying it as an unrecognized sin that blinds individuals to their own ego.

In simple terms: Selfish people focus on “I” and seek attention, often unaware of it.

Key Takeaway

Reflect on personal language and attention habits.

Themes

selfishness ego awareness

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

philosophical psychological

When to use this quote

  • personal development
  • relationship counseling
  • ethical discussions

Key Concepts

psychology ethics social behavior

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can one balance self‑interest and community?
  • What signs reveal hidden selfishness?
A Different Perspective

The description may generalize and ignore altruistic motives.

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