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“you may take it from me, that however hard you try - or don't try; whatever you do - or don't do; for better, for worse; for richer, for poorer; every way and every day: the parent is always wrong. So it is no good bothering about it. When the little pests grow up they will certainly tell you…” quote by Gwen Raverat
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“you may take it from me, that however hard you try - or don't try; whatever you do - or don't do; for better, for worse; for richer, for poorer; every way and every day: the parent is always wrong. So it is no good bothering about it. When the little pests grow up they will certainly tell you exactly what you did wrong in their case. But never mind; they will be just as wrong themselves in their turn.”

Gwen Raverat

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Parents are often judged as infallible, but they too make mistakes; children will notice and repeat them.

In simple terms: Parents aren’t always right; kids will point out flaws.

Key Takeaway

Accept parental imperfection and learn from it.

Themes

family growth humility

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

philosophical advice

When to use this quote

  • parenting
  • family gatherings
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

generational learning self‑awareness

Questions to Reflect On

  • What can you teach children about mistakes?
  • How to handle parental criticism?
A Different Perspective

Children may repeat the same errors.

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