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“But vilifying those we love always alienates us from them to a certain extent. Idols should not be touched: the gilding comes off on the hands.” quote by Gustave Flaubert
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““But vilifying those we love always alienates us from them to a certain extent. Idols should not be touched: the gilding comes off on the hands.””

Gustave Flaubert

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Idolizing loved ones creates distance; reverence can corrupt relationships.

In simple terms: Worshipping people can push them away.

Key Takeaway

Balance admiration with realistic expectations.

Themes

relationships idolization humanity love psychology

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

philosophical emotional

When to use this quote

  • friendships
  • family dynamics
  • celebrity culture
  • mentor‑mentee relationships

Key Concepts

objectification emotional distance idealization

Questions to Reflect On

  • When does admiration become harmful?
  • How can we maintain intimacy without idealizing?
A Different Perspective

May oversimplify complex emotional bonds.

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