I do not worry very much about the young men and women…
““I do not worry very much about the young men and women, including many returned missionaries, who are of such an age that in all likelihood they will be married within a relatively short time. I feel they should not be put under pressure by counsel from Church leaders to rush into it. But neither do I believe that they should dally along in a fruitless, frustrating, and frivolous dating game that only raises hopes and brings disappointment and in some cases heartache. The young men should take the initiative in this matter. It goes without saying that they should be encouraged to live worthy of the companionship of a wonderful partner. They should be taught to put aside any thought of selfish superiority and recognize and follow the teaching of the Church that the husband and wife walk side by side with neither one ahead or behind.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Encourages balanced, purposeful dating without pressure, emphasizing mutual respect and shared spiritual goals.
In simple terms: Date responsibly, respect each other, avoid rushed or frivolous relationships.
Key Takeaway
Seek meaningful partnership, not a dating game.
Themes
relationships
faith
responsibility
Mood
thoughtful
encouraging
Type
advisory
spiritual
When to use this quote
- young adults
- church counseling
- marriage preparation
- dating culture
Key Concepts
mutual respect
spiritual partnership
initiative
Questions to Reflect On
- How can couples balance personal timing with community expectations?
- What signs indicate a relationship is spiritually healthy?
A Different Perspective
May overlook individual readiness or cultural differences.