That is the way with us when we have any uneasy jealousy…
““That is the way with us when we have any uneasy jealousy in our disposition: if our talents are chiefly of the burrowing kind, our honey-sipping cousin (whom we have grave reasons for objecting to) is likely to have a secret contempt for us, and any one who admires him passes an oblique criticism on ourselves. Having the scruples of rectitude in our souls, we are above the meanness of injuring him—rather we meet all his claims on us by active benefits; and the drawing of cheques for him, being a superiority which he must recognize, gives our bitterness a milder infusion.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Jealousy can turn admiration into hidden resentment, prompting us to overcompensate with generosity that masks bitterness.
In simple terms: Jealousy leads to hidden resentment and overcompensation.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and address jealousy directly.
Themes
jealousy
pride
social dynamics
Mood
reflective
analytical
Type
philosophical
literary
When to use this quote
- family relationships
- workplace competition
- friendships
Key Concepts
psychology
human behavior
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you mask resentment with excessive generosity?
- How can you confront jealousy without overcompensating?
A Different Perspective
Jealousy may be justified when talent differences are real.