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We choose--or choose not--to be alone when we decide whom…

“We choose--or choose not--to be alone when we decide whom we will accept as our fellows, and whom we will reject. Thus an eremite in a mountain is in company, because the birds and coneys, the initiates whose words live in his 'forest books,' and the winds--the messengers of the Increate--are his…” quote by Gene Wolfe
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“We choose--or choose not--to be alone when we decide whom we will accept as our fellows, and whom we will reject. Thus an eremite in a mountain is in company, because the birds and coneys, the initiates whose words live in his 'forest books,' and the winds--the messengers of the Increate--are his companions. Another man, living in the midst of millions, may be alone, because there are none but enemies and victims around him.”

Gene Wolfe

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Human connection is chosen; solitude can be found among thoughts, nature, or crowds, depending on perception.

In simple terms: We pick our companions, real or imagined.

Key Takeaway

Choose meaningful connections.

Themes

loneliness choice perception

Mood

contemplative melancholic

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal reflection
  • creative writing
  • community building

Key Concepts

existentialism social psychology literary metaphor

Questions to Reflect On

  • What companions do you cherish?
  • How does perception shape your sense of isolation?
A Different Perspective

Idealizing solitude may ignore real social needs.

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