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In the Christian sense, love is not primarily an emotion…

“In the Christian sense, love is not primarily an emotion but an act of the will. When Jesus tells us to love our neighbors, he is not telling us to love them in the sense of responding to them with a cozy emotional feeling. You can as well produce a cozy emotional feeling as you can a cough or…” quote by Frederick Buechner
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“In the Christian sense, love is not primarily an emotion but an act of the will. When Jesus tells us to love our neighbors, he is not telling us to love them in the sense of responding to them with a cozy emotional feeling. You can as well produce a cozy emotional feeling as you can a cough or sneeze. On the contrary, he is telling us to love our neighbors in the sense of being willing to work for their well-being even if it means sacrificing our well-being to that end.”

Frederick Buechner

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Love is a deliberate choice to act for others’ welfare, not just an emotional feeling.

In simple terms: Love is a willful act, not just feelings.

Key Takeaway

Choose to love through actions.

Themes

love will service self‑sacrifice

Mood

compassionate thoughtful

Type

ethical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • family care
  • community service
  • friendship
  • social work

Key Concepts

ethical choice altruism voluntary action

Questions to Reflect On

  • What actions show love for you?
  • Can love be sustained without feeling?
A Different Perspective

Emotions also matter; balance feeling with action.

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