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“To do good to one is to do bad to another. But you don't need to hear my excuses. They are the same that everyone makes to themselves when faced with the misery of others; though they would like to do the right thing, they simply fail to do so and look after themselves instead.” quote by Fay Weldon
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““To do good to one is to do bad to another. But you don't need to hear my excuses. They are the same that everyone makes to themselves when faced with the misery of others; though they would like to do the right thing, they simply fail to do so and look after themselves instead.””

Fay Weldon

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Highlights moral paradoxes where helping one may harm another, and how self‑interest often overrides altruism.

In simple terms: Helping one can hurt another; people make excuses for selfishness.

Key Takeaway

Beware self‑serving rationalizations.

Themes

morality human nature self‑interest

Mood

reflective provocative

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • charitable work
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

ethical dilemmas psychology of excuses

Questions to Reflect On

  • When have you justified selfish actions?
  • Can true altruism exist without self‑benefit?
A Different Perspective

May oversimplify complex ethical situations.

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