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“We shook hands and I started away. Just before I reached the hedge I remembered something and turned around. ‘They’re a rotten crowd,’ I shouted across the lawn. ‘You’re worth the whole damn bunch put together.’ I’ve always been glad I said that. It was the only compliment I ever gave him, because…” quote by F. Scott Fitzgerald
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““We shook hands and I started away. Just before I reached the hedge I remembered something and turned around. ‘They’re a rotten crowd,’ I shouted across the lawn. ‘You’re worth the whole damn bunch put together.’ I’ve always been glad I said that. It was the only compliment I ever gave him, because I disapproved of him from beginning to end.””

F. Scott Fitzgerald

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The narrator expresses admiration for a friend despite disliking him overall, highlighting a complex mix of respect and criticism.

In simple terms: He praised a friend’s worth despite personal disapproval.

Key Takeaway

Recognize both flaws and virtues in people.

Themes

friendship honor conflict complexity

Mood

reflective conflicted

Type

literary personal philosophical

When to use this quote

  • social gatherings
  • personal reflections
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

moral ambivalence personal integrity

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance admiration with criticism?
  • When is it appropriate to give mixed feedback?
A Different Perspective

The compliment may seem contradictory, undermining its sincerity.

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