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When I pray, I never pray for myself, always for others…

“When I pray, I never pray for myself, always for others, or else I hold a silly, naive, or deadly serious dialogue with what is deepest inside me, which for the sake of convenience I call God. Praying to God for something for yourself strikes me as being too childish for words. To pray for…” quote by Etty Hillesum
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“When I pray, I never pray for myself, always for others, or else I hold a silly, naive, or deadly serious dialogue with what is deepest inside me, which for the sake of convenience I call God. Praying to God for something for yourself strikes me as being too childish for words. To pray for another's well-being is something I find childish as well; one should only pray that another should have enough strength to shoulder his burden. If you do that, you lend him some of your own strength.”

Etty Hillesum

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Prayer should focus on empowering others, not self‑centered wishes.

In simple terms: Pray for others’ strength, not personal gain.

Key Takeaway

Shift prayer to support others’ resilience.

Themes

spirituality selflessness compassion

Mood

contemplative humble

Type

spiritual philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal prayer
  • community support
  • counseling

Key Concepts

altruism inner dialogue faith practice

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance self‑care with altruism?
  • What does “strength” mean in this context?
A Different Perspective

Self‑centered prayer can neglect personal needs.

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