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We drove to the hotel and said goodbye. How hypocritical…

“We drove to the hotel and said goodbye. How hypocritical to go upstairs with a man you don't want to fuck, leave the one you do sitting there alone, and then, in a state of great excitement, fuck the one you don't want to fuck while pretending he's the one you do. That's called fidelity. That's…” quote by Erica Jong
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““We drove to the hotel and said goodbye. How hypocritical to go upstairs with a man you don't want to fuck, leave the one you do sitting there alone, and then, in a state of great excitement, fuck the one you don't want to fuck while pretending he's the one you do. That's called fidelity. That's called monogamy. That's called civilization and its discontents.””

Erica Jong

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The quote sat the paradox of monogamy, where people may act against their true desires while claiming fidelity, highlighting societal contradictions.

In simple terms: Monogamy can feel contradictory and forced.

Key Takeaway

Question personal expectations and honesty.

Themes

relationships sexuality societal norms hypocrisy

Mood

conflicted ironic critical

Type

satirical philosophical social commentary

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • marriage
  • sexual politics
  • personal reflection
  • cultural critique

Key Concepts

monogamy authenticity civilization

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does fidelity mean to you?
  • How can honesty reshape relationships?
A Different Perspective

It ignores the complexity of human desire and can pressure individuals into in roles.

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