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“To tell a lie in cowardice, to tell a lie for gain, or to avoid deserved punishment-are all the blackest of black lies. On the other hand, to teach one to try one's best to avoid the truth-even to press it when necessary toward the outer edge of the rainbow-for a reason of kindness, or of mercy…” quote by Emily Post
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“To tell a lie in cowardice, to tell a lie for gain, or to avoid deserved punishment-are all the blackest of black lies. On the other hand, to teach one to try one's best to avoid the truth-even to press it when necessary toward the outer edge of the rainbow-for a reason of kindness, or of mercy, is far closer to the heart of truth than to repeat something accurately and mercilessly that will cruelly hurt the feelings of someone.”

Emily Post

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Lying for selfish reasons harms trust, while compassionate truth‑telling can protect feelings.

In simple terms: Truth with kindness matters.

Key Takeaway

Speak truth compassionately.

Themes

ethics communication kindness

Mood

thoughtful serious

Type

ethical practical

When to use this quote

  • family discussions
  • customer service
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

Moral philosophy social etiquette

Questions to Reflect On

  • When is honesty essential?
  • How to balance truth and kindness?
A Different Perspective

Truth may still cause pain.

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