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The Inevitable While I was fearing it, it came, But came…

“The Inevitable While I was fearing it, it came, But came with less of fear, Because that fearing it so long Had almost made it dear. There is a fitting a dismay, A fitting a despair. 'Tis harder knowing it is due, Than knowing it is here. The trying on the utmost, The morning it is new, Is…” quote by Emily Dickinson
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““The Inevitable While I was fearing it, it came, But came with less of fear, Because that fearing it so long Had almost made it dear. There is a fitting a dismay, A fitting a despair. 'Tis harder knowing it is due, Than knowing it is here. The trying on the utmost, The morning it is new, Is terribler than wearing it A whole existence through.””

Emily Dickinson

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The poem reflects on how anticipation and fear of an inevitable event can make it seem less daunting once it arrives, yet the reality can be more challenging than imagined.

In simple terms: Fear of the future can soften when it arrives, but reality may be harsher.

Key Takeaway

Embrace the present despite fear.

Themes

anticipation inevitability fear reality acceptance

Mood

melancholic reflective thoughtful

Type

poetic philosophical literary

When to use this quote

  • personal loss
  • health crisis
  • career transition
  • major life change

Key Concepts

existentialism psychology temporal perception

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does anticipation shape your experience of change?
  • Can confronting fear improve your response?
A Different Perspective

The poem may romanticize suffering, overlooking resilience.

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