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Our natural reason looks at marriage and turns up its nose…

“Our natural reason looks at marriage and turns up its nose and says, Alas! Must I rock the baby? wash its diapers? make its bed? smell its stench? stay at nights with it? take care of it when it cries? heal its rashes and sores? and on top of that care for my spouse, provide labor at my trade…” quote by Elisabeth Elliot
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“Our natural reason looks at marriage and turns up its nose and says, Alas! Must I rock the baby? wash its diapers? make its bed? smell its stench? stay at nights with it? take care of it when it cries? heal its rashes and sores? and on top of that care for my spouse, provide labor at my trade, take care of this and take care of that? do this and do that? and endure this and endure that? Why should I make such a prisoner of myself?”

Elisabeth Elliot

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

She questions the burdens of domestic and marital responsibilities, feeling trapped by endless chores and duties.

In simple terms: Feeling trapped by endless chores.

Key Takeaway

Reframe chores as shared partnership.

Themes

marriage responsibility burden gender roles

Mood

frustrated reflective

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • family life
  • work‑life balance
  • parenting
  • household management

Key Concepts

domestic labor expectations self‑care

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can partners share domestic duties more equitably?
  • What small change could reduce your sense of being trapped?
A Different Perspective

Shared responsibility can alleviate feeling of imprisonment.

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