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It's your life - but only if you make it so. The standards…

“It's your life - but only if you make it so. The standards by which you live must be your own standards, your own values, your own convictions in regard to what is right and wrong, what is true and false, what is important and what is trivial. When you adopt the standards and the values of someone…” quote by Eleanor Roosevelt
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“It's your life - but only if you make it so. The standards by which you live must be your own standards, your own values, your own convictions in regard to what is right and wrong, what is true and false, what is important and what is trivial. When you adopt the standards and the values of someone else . . . you surrender your own integrity. You become, to the extent of your surrender, less of a human being.”

Eleanor Roosevelt

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Personal integrity requires living by self-chosen values; adopting others' standards diminishes humanity.

In simple terms: Live by your own values, not others'.

Key Takeaway

Define and uphold your own standards.

Themes

integrity self‑determination values autonomy

Mood

inspirational reflective

Type

philosophical motivational

When to use this quote

  • career decisions
  • personal relationships
  • political activism
  • daily choices

Key Concepts

personal ethics self‑identity moral philosophy

Questions to Reflect On

  • What values are non‑negotiable for you?
  • How do you resist external expectations?
A Different Perspective

Societal pressure can make it hard to maintain personal standards.

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