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There is a great deal of difference between keeping one’s…

“There is a great deal of difference between keeping one’s own secret and keeping a secret for another soul; so much so that I wish we had two worlds, that is a word for a secret of one’s own making and a word for a secret that on did not make, and perhaps did not wish for, but has chosen to keep…” quote by Eleanor Catton
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““There is a great deal of difference between keeping one’s own secret and keeping a secret for another soul; so much so that I wish we had two worlds, that is a word for a secret of one’s own making and a word for a secret that on did not make, and perhaps did not wish for, but has chosen to keep, all the same.” Page 788””

Eleanor Catton

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Keeping a personal secret differs from holding someone else’s secret; the former is self‑created, the latter is imposed, highlighting moral complexity.

In simple terms: Personal secrets are self‑made; others’ secrets are given.

Key Takeaway

Recognize the source of each secret you keep.

Themes

ethics privacy trust

Mood

thoughtful serious

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • conflict resolution
  • legal testimony

Key Concepts

moral philosophy psychology social dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • Whose secret are you holding?
  • Do you feel responsible for secrets you didn’t create?
A Different Perspective

Secrets imposed by others can burden us beyond our control.

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