Like, no one ever actually knows what the right thing to…
““Like, no one ever actually knows what the right thing to do is. I mean, you can think that you know what’s right, and you can tell yourself that you know, but at the point that you make your choice, like, in the moment, you’re never really certain. You just hope. You just act and you hope for the best, and maybe it turns out that you did the right thing, or maybe it turns out that you didn’t—in which case, all you can say is that at least you tried. But, like, the wrong thing to do, that’s often much clearer. Wrong is, like, easier to see than right, a lot of the time. It’s more definite—like, this is the line I know I will not cross, this is what I absolutely will not do.’ ‘Yeah,’ said Mira. ‘I see that.’ ‘So anyway,’ Shelley went on, ‘this is what I was thinking: that, like, the real choices that you make in your life, the really difficult, defining choices, are never between what’s right and what’s easy. They’re between what’s wrong and what’s hard.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Choosing is often a struggle between uncertain right and clearly wrong, requiring hope and effort rather than certainty.
In simple terms: Right choices are uncertain; wrong choices are clearer.
Act with hope, accept uncertainty.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- career decisions
- relationships
- ethical dilemmas
- personal development
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you differentiate between right and wrong when both are unclear?
- What role does hope play in your decisions?
Even with hope, outcomes may still be unfavorable, leading to regret.