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“You have not been yourself all day," said Henry, and rose from his seat with face unmoved. Margaret rushed at him and seized both his hands. She was transfigured. "Not any more of this!" she cried. "You shall see the connection if it kills you, Henry! You have had a mistress—I forgave you. My…” quote by E.M. Forster
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““You have not been yourself all day," said Henry, and rose from his seat with face unmoved. Margaret rushed at him and seized both his hands. She was transfigured. "Not any more of this!" she cried. "You shall see the connection if it kills you, Henry! You have had a mistress—I forgave you. My sister has a lover—you drive her from the house. Do you see the connection? Stupid, hypocritical, cruel—oh, contemptible!—a man who insults his wife when she's alive and cants with her memory when she's dead. A man who ruins a woman for his pleasure, and casts her off to ruin other men. And gives bad financial advice, and then says he is not responsible. These men are you. You can't recognise them, because you cannot connect. I've had enough of your unneeded kindness. I've spoilt you long enough. All your life you have been spoiled. Mrs. Wilcox spoiled you. No one has ever told what you are—muddled, criminally muddled. Men like you use repentance as a blind, so don't repent. Only say to yourself, 'What Helen has done, I've done.””

E.M. Forster

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A character confronts hypocrisy and moral decay, urging recognition of personal responsibility and truth

In simple terms: Confront hypocrisy and accept responsibility for actions

Key Takeaway

Face truth, reject hypocrisy, own your deeds

Themes

morality hypocrisy personal growth relationships truth

Mood

intense critical

Type

dramatic psychological

When to use this quote

  • family disputes
  • marital conflict
  • personal betrayal

Key Concepts

ethical accountability self-awareness emotional confrontation

Questions to Reflect On

  • What personal hypocrisies do you need to acknowledge?
  • How can confronting truth improve relationships?
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