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“When we can’t find a self within or outside of these parts, we may then conclude that the self is that which is aware of all of these things—the knower or mind. But when we look for the mind, we can’t find any shape, or color, or form. This mind that we identify as the self, which we could call…” quote by Dzigar Kongtrül III
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““When we can’t find a self within or outside of these parts, we may then conclude that the self is that which is aware of all of these things—the knower or mind. But when we look for the mind, we can’t find any shape, or color, or form. This mind that we identify as the self, which we could call ego-mind, controls everything we do. Yet it can’t actually be found—which is somewhat spooky, as if a ghost were managing our home. The house seems to be empty, but all the housework has been done. The bed has been made, our shoes have been polished, the tea has been poured, and the breakfast has been cooked.””

Dzigar Kongtrül III

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The self is not a concrete entity but the awareness behind thoughts and sensations; the ego‑mind appears to control actions yet has no tangible form.

In simple terms: Self is awareness, not a thing.

Key Takeaway

Recognize awareness beyond ego.

Themes

self consciousness ego mindfulness

Mood

contemplative curious

Type

philosophical spiritual

When to use this quote

  • meditation
  • self‑inquiry
  • psychotherapy
  • spiritual practice

Key Concepts

non‑dualism philosophy psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you notice the gap between awareness and ego?
  • What practices reveal the empty nature of the self?
A Different Perspective

Ego‑mind may still influence behavior despite being intangible.

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