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“I am telling you now that you did right with Robin Stewart and I am telling you that the error you made came later, when you took no heed of his call. It was too late then, I know it. But he should have been in your mind. He was your man. True for you, you had withdrawn the crutch from his sight…” quote by Dorothy Dunnett
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““I am telling you now that you did right with Robin Stewart and I am telling you that the error you made came later, when you took no heed of his call. It was too late then, I know it. But he should have been in your mind. He was your man. True for you, you had withdrawn the crutch from his sight, but still it should have been there in your hand, ready for him. For you are a leader—don’t you know it? I don’t, surely, need to tell you?—And that is what leadership means. It means fortifying the fainthearted and giving them the two sides of your tongue while you are at it. It means suffering weak love and schooling it till it matures. It means giving up your privacies, your follies and your leisure. It means you can love nothing and no one too much, or you are no longer a leader, you are the led.””

Dorothy Dunnett

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Leadership demands personal sacrifice, empathy, and guiding others despite personal costs.

In simple terms: Leadership needs sacrifice and empathy.

Key Takeaway

Lead with humility.

Themes

leadership service self‑sacrifice growth

Mood

reflective serious

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • corporate management
  • military command
  • non‑profit direction
  • family leadership

Key Concepts

empathy responsibility personal development

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance self‑care with leading?
  • What limits should leaders set?
A Different Perspective

Leaders may become overwhelmed by self‑neglect.

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