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“..if you put people on a diet, they start thinking about food. Or if you make someone stop smoking, all they think about is cigarettes. It seems logical enough to me that if you tell a person he can't have sex, he's going to be obsessive about the subject. Then to give him the power to tell other…” quote by Donna Leon
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““..if you put people on a diet, they start thinking about food. Or if you make someone stop smoking, all they think about is cigarettes. It seems logical enough to me that if you tell a person he can't have sex, he's going to be obsessive about the subject. Then to give him the power to tell other people how to run their sex lives, well, that's just asking for trouble. In a way, it's like having a blind person teach Art History, isn't it?””

Donna Leon

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Restricting freedoms leads to obsessive focus on the forbidden, making control ineffective.

In simple terms: Control breeds obsession.

Key Takeaway

Avoid imposing bans on natural desires.

Themes

control psychology freedom obsession authority

Mood

cautionary analytical

Type

ethical psychological

When to use this quote

  • dieting
  • smoking cessation
  • sexual education
  • policy making

Key Concepts

behavioral economics cognitive bias social dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you guide behavior without outright bans?
  • What alternatives reduce obsession?
A Different Perspective

People may rebel or become fixated when denied,.

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