..if you put people on a diet, they start thinking about…
““..if you put people on a diet, they start thinking about food. Or if you make someone stop smoking, all they think about is cigarettes. It seems logical enough to me that if you tell a person he can't have sex, he's going to be obsessive about the subject. Then to give him the power to tell other people how to run their sex lives, well, that's just asking for trouble. In a way, it's like having a blind person teach Art History, isn't it?””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Restricting freedoms leads to obsessive focus on the forbidden, making control ineffective.
In simple terms: Control breeds obsession.
Avoid imposing bans on natural desires.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- dieting
- smoking cessation
- sexual education
- policy making
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you guide behavior without outright bans?
- What alternatives reduce obsession?
People may rebel or become fixated when denied,.