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“There is a kind of listening with half an ear that presumes already to know what the other person has to say. It is an impatient, inattentive listening, that despises the brother and is only waiting for a chance to speak and thus get rid of the other person. This is no fulfillment of our…” quote by Dietrich Bonhoeffer
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““There is a kind of listening with half an ear that presumes already to know what the other person has to say. It is an impatient, inattentive listening, that despises the brother and is only waiting for a chance to speak and thus get rid of the other person. This is no fulfillment of our obligation, and it is certain that here too our attitude toward our brother only reflects our relationship to God. It is little wonder that we are no longer capable of the greatest service of listening that God has committed to us, that of hearing our brother's confession, if we refuse to give ear to our brother on lesser subjects. Secular education today is aware that often a person can be helped merely by having someone who will listen to him seriously, and upon this insight it has constructed its own soul therapy, which has attracted great numbers of people, including Christians. But Christians have forgotten that the ministry of listening has been committed to them by Him who is Himself the great listener and whose work they should share. We should listen with the ears of God that we may speak the Word of God.””

Dietrich Bonhoeffer

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Listening half‑heartedly shows disrespect and undermines spiritual duty; true listening reflects divine love and fosters genuine connection.

In simple terms: Listening with full attention honors God and others.

Key Takeaway

Practice deep, compassionate listening.

Themes

spirituality communication humility

Mood

reflective serene

Type

ethical spiritual

When to use this quote

  • counseling
  • pastoral care
  • conflict resolution
  • friendship
  • family discussions

Key Concepts

theology empathy ethical duty

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you cultivate listening that mirrors divine patience?
  • What barriers prevent you from fully hearing others?
A Different Perspective

It can be difficult to set aside personal agenda and truly hear.

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