But what kind of love is this that is so unaware of itself…
““But what kind of love is this that is so unaware of itself that it can be hidden until the day of judgement? The answer is obvious. Because love is hidden it cannot be a visible virtue or a habit which can be acquired. Take heed, it says, that you do not exchange true love for an amiable virtuousness, a human "quality." Genuine love is always self-forgetful in the true sense of the word. But if we are to have it, our old man must die with all his virtues and qualities, and this can only be done where the disciple forgets self and clings solely to Christ.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
True love is self‑forgetting and cannot be cultivated as a habit; it requires surrendering personal virtues and clinging solely to Christ.
In simple terms: Genuine love is selfless and spiritual.
Let go of self‑centered virtues to love truly.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- spiritual practice
- community life
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What virtues must you release to love selflessly?
- How does self‑forgetfulness deepen love?
Love that seeks personal gain loses its depth.