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“Pray that you may be open to any painful memories that arise and to His healing presence in your life. Now think about your relationship with your unfaithful partner. Allow yourself to remember some of the painful incidents with your partner, for example, the discovery of the affair with all of…” quote by Dennis C. Ortman
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““Pray that you may be open to any painful memories that arise and to His healing presence in your life. Now think about your relationship with your unfaithful partner. Allow yourself to remember some of the painful incidents with your partner, for example, the discovery of the affair with all of your reactions of stunned disbelief, rage, and deep sorrow. Allow yourself to embrace all the distressful thoughts and feelings at the time. Relive the moment, despite your natural resistance to recall it. Then, as far as you are able, express your forgiveness to your unfaithful partner. Next, relive that painful moment again, but this time, imagine that Jesus is standing by your side. Even if Christianity isn’t the religion you subscribe to, you can still imagine Jesus and his presence. Imagine what Jesus would say to you and your partner at that moment, how he would extend his love and compassion. Imagine Jesus embracing your partner in forgiveness and then holding you in his arms, reassuring you of his love and protection. Finally, thank Jesus for his love and healing, for not leaving you alone in your suffering.””

Dennis C. Ortman

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Forgiveness through recalling pain, imagining divine presence, and extending compassion heals.

In simple terms: Recall hurt, imagine Jesus, forgive to heal.

Key Takeaway

Practice forgiveness with spiritual imagination.

Themes

forgiveness pain spirituality healing compassion

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

spiritual therapeutic

When to use this quote

  • counseling
  • personal prayer
  • support groups
  • relationship repair

Key Concepts

theology psychology trauma recovery

Questions to Reflect On

  • Can you forgive without forgetting?
  • What does divine presence mean to you?
A Different Perspective

Forgiveness may not be possible without genuine repentance.

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