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Well I can tell you now that married life is not a…

“Well I can tell you now that married life is not a plateau, not at all. There are ravines and great jagged peaks and hidden crevasses that send the both of you scrabbling into darkness. Then there are dull, parched stretches that you feel will never end, and much of the journey is in fraught…” quote by David Nicholls
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““Well I can tell you now that married life is not a plateau, not at all. There are ravines and great jagged peaks and hidden crevasses that send the both of you scrabbling into darkness. Then there are dull, parched stretches that you feel will never end, and much of the journey is in fraught silence, and sometimes you can’t see the other person at all, sometimes they drift off very far away from you, quite out of sight, and the journey is hard. It is just very, very, very hard.””

David Nicholls

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Marriage is depicted as a rugged terrain with highs, lows, and periods of silence, making the relationship extremely challenging.

In simple terms: Marriage is a difficult, uneven journey.

Key Takeaway

Embrace the challenges of partnership.

Themes

relationship marriage challenges growth

Mood

empathetic realistic

Type

literary relationship

When to use this quote

  • marital counseling
  • relationship milestones
  • daily life
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

emotional resilience communication

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do couples navigate the 'ravines' together?
  • What role does silence play in intimacy?
A Different Perspective

May romanticize hardship without offering solutions.

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