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“This story ["The Depressed Person"] was the most painful thing I ever wrote. It's about narcissism, which is a part of depression. The character has traits of myself. I really lost friends while writing on that story, I became ugly and unhappy and just yelled at people. The cruel thing with…” quote by David Foster Wallace
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“This story ["The Depressed Person"] was the most painful thing I ever wrote. It's about narcissism, which is a part of depression. The character has traits of myself. I really lost friends while writing on that story, I became ugly and unhappy and just yelled at people. The cruel thing with depression is that it's such a self-centered illness - Dostoevsky shows that pretty good in his "Notes from Underground". The depression is painful, you're sapped/consumed by yourself; the worse the depression, the more you just think about yourself and the stranger and repellent you appear to others.”

David Foster Wallace

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Depression isolates, making self‑absorption painful and alienating; it mirrors Dostoevsky’s self‑centered suffering.

In simple terms: Depression makes you focus on yourself, hurting relationships.

Key Takeaway

Seek connection beyond self‑focus.

Themes

mental health self‑absorption loneliness

Mood

somber introspective

Type

literary psychological

When to use this quote

  • therapy
  • writing therapy
  • support groups

Key Concepts

existential angst psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does self‑absorption worsen depression?
  • What practices reduce self‑centered thinking?
A Different Perspective

Self‑reflection may be limited.

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