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“There are, apparently, persons who are deeply afraid of their own emotions, particularly the painful ones. Grief, regret, sadness. Sadness especially, perhaps. Dolores describes these persons as afraid of obliteration, emotional engulfment. As if something truly and thoroughly felt would have no…” quote by David Foster Wallace
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““There are, apparently, persons who are deeply afraid of their own emotions, particularly the painful ones. Grief, regret, sadness. Sadness especially, perhaps. Dolores describes these persons as afraid of obliteration, emotional engulfment. As if something truly and thoroughly felt would have no end or bottom. Would become infinite and engulf them.’ ‘Engulf means obliterate.””

David Foster Wallace

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Describes fear of deep, endless emotions as a desire to avoid being overwhelmed.

In simple terms: Fear of feeling can lead to emotional avoidance.

Key Takeaway

Confront emotions rather than flee.

Themes

psychology emotion fear vulnerability existence

Mood

introspective somber

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • therapy
  • writing
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

emotional avoidance existential dread self‑protection

Questions to Reflect On

  • What emotions do you suppress and why?
  • How might embracing pain foster growth?
A Different Perspective

Avoiding emotions can hinder healing.

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