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“That her will and wishes had opposed my own just a little more. This by the way is known as Werther's Axiom, whereby quote the intensity of a desire D is inversely proportional to the ease of D's gratification. Known also as Romance.” quote by David Foster Wallace
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““That her will and wishes had opposed my own just a little more. This by the way is known as Werther's Axiom, whereby quote the intensity of a desire D is inversely proportional to the ease of D's gratification. Known also as Romance.””

David Foster Wallace

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Desire feels strongest when fulfillment is hardest; the harder it is to get what you want, the more intense the longing becomes.

In simple terms: Intense desire grows with difficulty of satisfaction.

Key Takeaway

Recognize when difficulty fuels obsession.

Themes

desire frustration motivation psychology

Mood

thoughtful analytical

Type

philosophical literary

When to use this quote

  • romantic relationships
  • career goals
  • creative projects
  • personal ambitions

Key Concepts

Werther’s Axiom inverse relationship human behavior

Questions to Reflect On

  • Are your strongest wishes unattainable?
  • Can you find satisfaction in the pursuit itself?
A Different Perspective

Obsessing on hard‑to‑reach goals can lead to burnout.

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