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Then all at once she turned to me, her face pale, her eyes…

“Then all at once she turned to me, her face pale, her eyes strangely alight. She said, “Is it possible to love someone so much, that it gives one a pleasure to hurt them? To hurt them by jealousy, I mean, and to hurt myself at the same time. Pleasure and pain, an equal mingling of pleasure and…” quote by Daphne du Maurier
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““Then all at once she turned to me, her face pale, her eyes strangely alight. She said, “Is it possible to love someone so much, that it gives one a pleasure to hurt them? To hurt them by jealousy, I mean, and to hurt myself at the same time. Pleasure and pain, an equal mingling of pleasure and pain, just as an experiment, a rare sensation?””

Daphne du Maurier

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The speaker wonders if love can be so intense that it blends pleasure with pain, creating a paradoxical, experimental feeling.

In simple terms: Love can mix joy and hurt.

Key Takeaway

Explore the complexity of intense emotions.

Themes

love pain paradox jealousy

Mood

introspective melancholic

Type

literary psychological

When to use this quote

  • romantic relationships
  • self‑reflection
  • artistic expression

Key Concepts

psychology emotional conflict

Questions to Reflect On

  • Can love be both a source of joy and suffering?
  • What does it mean to love someone enough to hurt them?
A Different Perspective

Love can be destructive and self‑damaging.

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