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“If you and I want to stir up a resentment tomorrow that may rankle across the decades and endure until death, just let us indulge in a little stinging criticism - no matter how certain we are that it is justified.” quote by Dale Carnegie
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“If you and I want to stir up a resentment tomorrow that may rankle across the decades and endure until death, just let us indulge in a little stinging criticism - no matter how certain we are that it is justified.”

Dale Carnegie

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Criticizing others, even when justified, plants lasting resentment that can last decades.

In simple terms: Harsh criticism creates long‑lasting resentment.

Key Takeaway

Avoid unnecessary criticism.

Themes

relationships communication ethics

Mood

cautious reflective

Type

advice ethical

When to use this quote

  • team meetings
  • family discussions
  • online debates
  • public speaking
  • leadership

Key Concepts

psychology conflict reputation

Questions to Reflect On

  • Is the criticism worth the long‑term damage?
  • How can you address issues without harsh words?
A Different Perspective

Even justified criticism can damage trust and morale.

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