I received a letter from the mother, saying that I was…
““I received a letter from the mother, saying that I was most ungrateful... When you get a letter like that, the first thing you do is to think how you can be severe with a person who has committed an impropriety, or even been a little impertinent. Then you may compose an answer. Then if you are wise, you will put the letter in a drawer and lock the drawer. Take it out in the course of two days- such communications will always bear two days' delay in answering- and when you take it out after that interval, you will not send it. p190””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
A wise person delays responding to hurtful letters, letting emotions settle before deciding whether to reply.
In simple terms: Delay replying to angry letters to cool down.
Key Takeaway
Pause before reacting to emotional messages.
Themes
emotional control
communication
patience
Mood
reflective
calm
Type
advice
psychology
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- customer service
- online harassment
- family disputes
Key Concepts
psychology
conflict resolution
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you decide when to respond or let go?
- What helps you cool down after a hurtful message?
A Different Perspective
Delaying may also be seen as avoidance or neglect.