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“he had never heard Owen D. Young give a direct order to anyone. He always gave suggestions, not orders. Owen D. Young never said, for example, "Do this or do that," or "Don't do this or don't do that." He would say, "You might consider this," or "Do you think that would work?" Frequently he would…” quote by Dale Carnegie
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““he had never heard Owen D. Young give a direct order to anyone. He always gave suggestions, not orders. Owen D. Young never said, for example, "Do this or do that," or "Don't do this or don't do that." He would say, "You might consider this," or "Do you think that would work?" Frequently he would say, "Maybe if we were to phrase it this way it would be better." He always gave people the opportunity to do things themselves; he never told his assistants to do things; he let them do them, let them learn from their mistakes. A technique like that makes it easy for a person to correct errors. A technique like that saves a person's pride and gives him or her a felling of importance. It encourages cooperation instead of rebellion. p237-238””

Dale Carnegie

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This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Advocates indirect leadership through suggestions, fostering autonomy and pride.

In simple terms: Lead by suggesting, not commanding.

Key Takeaway

Empower others through guidance.

Themes

leadership communication empowerment

Mood

inspirational pragmatic

Type

leadership advice

When to use this quote

  • workplace meetings
  • team projects
  • ment mentorship

Key Concepts

psychology management cooperation

Questions to Reflect On

  • When should you give direct orders?
  • How do you balance guidance and authority?
A Different Perspective

May be less effective in crisis requiring decisive orders.

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