Many people suffer great miseries but if you ask them in…
““Many people suffer great miseries but if you ask them in front of others, 'you went through great difficulty, didn't you?', then they will respond, 'no, no I didn't have any suffering'. Then they feel happy. So what kind of ‘egoism’ should one do? During times of sorrow, one should do the ‘egoism’ of happiness such that 'no one is happier than I!' People in general do the ‘egoism’ of sorrow at the time of happiness.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
People often deny suffering when observed, preferring to appear happy, leading to a false egoism that values happiness over authenticity.
In simple terms: People hide pain to seem happy, creating a false egoism.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and accept true feelings instead of pretending.
Themes
egoism
authenticity
emotions
social perception
Mood
reflective
serious
Type
philosophical
psychological
When to use this quote
- personal reflection
- therapy
- group counseling
- mindfulness practice
Key Concepts
psychology
self-deception
social conformity
Questions to Reflect On
- How does pretending happiness affect personal well‑being?
- What are healthier ways to acknowledge suffering?
A Different Perspective
Denial can prevent genuine healing and growth.