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“The whole question of pornography seems to me a question of secrecy. Without secrecy there would be no pornography. But secrecy and modesty are two utterly different things. Secrecy has always an element of fear in it, amounting very often to hate. Modesty is gentle and reserved. Today, modesty is…” quote by D. H. Lawrence
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“The whole question of pornography seems to me a question of secrecy. Without secrecy there would be no pornography. But secrecy and modesty are two utterly different things. Secrecy has always an element of fear in it, amounting very often to hate. Modesty is gentle and reserved. Today, modesty is thrown to the winds, even in the presence of the grey guardians. But secrecy is hugged, being a vice in itself. And the attitude of the grey ones is: Dear young ladies, you may abandon all modesty, so long as you hug your dirty little secret.”

D. H. Lawrence

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The author argues that pornography thrives on secrecy, which carries fear and hate, while modesty is a gentle, distinct virtue now often abandoned.

In simple terms: Secrecy fuels pornography and fear; modesty is a separate, gentle virtue.

Key Takeaway

Distinguish between secrecy and modesty.

Themes

ethics privacy sexuality

Mood

critical thoughtful

Type

analytical philosophical

When to use this quote

  • media consumption
  • personal boundaries
  • educational workshops on consent

Key Concepts

social norms psychology of fear cultural critique

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does secrecy influence desire?
  • Can modesty exist without secrecy?
A Different Perspective

Secrecy can be used manipulatively, and not all privacy is harmful.

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