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I believe a man is born first unto himself - for the happy…

“I believe a man is born first unto himself - for the happy developing of himself, while the world is a nursery, and the pretty things are to be snatched for, and pleasant things tasted; some people seem to exist thus right to the end. But most are born again on entering manhood; then they are born…” quote by D. H. Lawrence
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“I believe a man is born first unto himself - for the happy developing of himself, while the world is a nursery, and the pretty things are to be snatched for, and pleasant things tasted; some people seem to exist thus right to the end. But most are born again on entering manhood; then they are born to humanity, to a consciousness of all the laughing, and the never-ceasing murmur of pain and sorrow that comes from the terrible multitudes of brothers.”

D. H. Lawrence

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Man matures from self‑centered youth to aware of collective humanity and shared suffering.

In simple terms: Growth from selfishness to empathy.

Key Takeaway

Embrace shared humanity.

Themes

growth empathy humanity

Mood

reflective philosophical

Type

literary existential

When to use this quote

  • education
  • parenting
  • community service
  • therapy

Key Concepts

self‑realization collective consciousness pain joy

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does personal growth affect societal responsibility?
  • What does it mean to be born again as an adult?
A Different Perspective

Self‑interest can limit understanding of others.

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