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“You know, he said, with an effort, 'if one person loves, the other does.' …'I hope so, because if it were not, love might be a very terrible thing,' she said. 'Yes, but it is - at least with most people,' he answered.” quote by D.H. Lawrence
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““You know, he said, with an effort, 'if one person loves, the other does.' …'I hope so, because if it were not, love might be a very terrible thing,' she said. 'Yes, but it is - at least with most people,' he answered.””

D.H. Lawrence

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Love requires mutual feeling; without it, love becomes painful.

In simple terms: Love needs both people to feel it.

Key Takeaway

Seek reciprocal affection.

Themes

love mutuality vulnerability

Mood

reflective melancholic

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • long‑term partnership
  • friendship
  • family ties

Key Concepts

emotional dependence relationship dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • Is love still love if only one feels it?
  • How do you handle unreciprocated affection?
A Different Perspective

One‑sided love can cause suffering.

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